I was always hoping that by reading a spiritual book I would be provided the answers to all my prayers; that by simply reading the book I would be transported to some magical place where suffering doesn’t exist. I was always disappointed. There is no magical place! If you are looking for that, you will be disappointed too. Happiness has much more texture than the utopia that I imagined. It is bliss blended with reality. It still has gravity and obstacles, schedules and responsibilities, appointments and occupations. There is simply more freedom while doing these things, as you are less burdened by worry and useless thinking. It is beautiful, but not as beautiful as the fairy tale we so desperately want.
For example: how many of you have a relationship that is exactly like one you would see in a movie? It may be something you long for because you enjoy love stories, but there is a big difference between a twenty year marriage and a two hour movie. Sure, I’ve said some wonderful one-liners to my wife, and she has given me plenty of loving embraces, but the one-liners and loving embraces have expiration dates. Each new day brings new challenges and opportunities. Relationships are ever changing because the people involved are ever changing.
The relationship we have with life is the same; there are always new requirements. There will always be new ways to serve, and if we are expanding like we should, so too is life.
Don’t expect a utopia. Simply commit to feeling the aliveness that you are. Learn from the downs and thrive in the ups. Be open to your evolving truth. It is a joy so real, so filled with texture that any paradise imagined is unjust.
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